Nothing but random thoughts.

I realise it's pretty boring just to blog about everyday life to the minute details of it. Like for example this blog but please try not to click on it too much, free advertisement is not good. And also the owner will be darn proud of his increasing viewership, and he will start to crap about it.

So as I was saying, it really is boring. I'm sure you wouldn't be interested in where I go, what I eat, who I have met, right? And the worst thing is I never take any photographs from any of my outings. Well, what interest me most is certainly how all my friends has change, as in their perception to things. They must have experienced a lot of things when I'm not around. I wonder why am I not study psychology when I am so interested in human thoughts and behaviour.

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I don't understand why people can start a relationship when they know there's totally no tomorrow in it. And I really wonder why do they have the courage to make plans for everything when they know the deadline for the end is coming soon.

I don't know who is more selfish in this? I wonder if there is another word to better describe it. Well, as a friend I certainty don't wish to see them fall.

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Enough of the boring stuffs. Well I have been thinking for a little while about myself, if you have been an avid reader of my blog, you should've read about the post on reasons to love and not to love. It's on the August 26 post.

Anyway, I think I'm falling into the loneliness category. However, the contradicting part in this controversy is the fear of hurting another person. Not the fear of been hurt but the fear of unable to commit fully i.e. whole-heartedly. Any rush decision will definitely cause hardship to other party.

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Now really enough of boring stuffs. My Birthday coming soon!! So have you guys prepared my birthday presents, surprises and wishes?

If you are wondering what to get for me, here's a list on what I want. Online reader can also give me as well, nothing to be shy about. This mean you!!

The list is not arrange in order of preferences.

Wetsuits - For scuba diving, must have long pants and long sleeves. 5mm thickness will be nice.
Diving gloves - Don't need to explain further. Must be cool and trendy.
Diving fins and mask - For fins I want the split fins. Mask must be silicon for the contact between the mask and face.
Perfume - Hugo Boss I think Soul or another one. I only remember it's one of the two latest fragrance.
PDA - The highest end of PDA. But have to be small and most important COOL~~~!!!
Handphone - SonyEricsson W800i.
Underwater Camera - Good choice as well.
Memory card - SD card, please at least 1GB.
Watch - I like metallic stuffs.
Sunglass - Oakley only.

All the above are just too expensive, here's some alternative.

Keychains - must be unique and small. Best is metallic.
Birthday Card - At least 50 words long. No money must have heart.
Birthday Treat - Hawker food will also do.

Alcohol - Don't make me puke too much though.
Birthday Songs - Also not bad but must sing individually to me.
Birthday Cake - Don't really fancy but a small small small slice of choc will do.
Chocolate - If really need to give me, dark chocolate please.

Lastly, only the girls will have this priviledge.

Birthday Kisses! - Don't need to explain further right?

8 more days for you guys to prepare.

Random thoughts

Well it has been almost a week since I'm back to Singapore. Ever since I'm back I have been rather busy meeting up with friends and of course with all the foods that I have missed.

Singapore has changed a lot during my 9 months stay in Australia, everything really has changed even the people, the soul, EVERYTHING. I remember the day I left for Australia, I really left with a heavy heart. It's definitely heavier than the first time I left for Australia. Reasons for the heavy heart? I guess it's the broken heart that I am mending. It really took me a lot of time and with a lot encouragement from good friends.

I am really happy that I have met some really good friends. Hmm.. A strange feeling just overwhelmed me. Guess that I really appreciate their existence. Thank you friends.

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Initially, I was a little afraid of coming back to Singapore. Not because of the changes in Singapore but more towards the memories I have for her. It's not that I don't want to let go, it's just that I am left with so many unanswered questions and doubts. Although I still pretty much want to know the answers to the questions, I guess I'll just have to leave it to fate.

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Went out with a friend today, she seems rather troubled by her BGR problem. Got nothing from my constant probing, however, she did mention that what I see is the tip of the ice berg. Of course I understand that, who don't? When dealing with BGR, it's never possible for a single issue to snowball into something bigger. That's not the point.

What surprised me is by the question she put across to me. She asked me what is the worst thing that she could have done? After probing, I still did not get any answer from her. (I think I suck at digging out information from people.) She only told me that my opinions on her will change if she were to tell me, I believe my friends can vouch me for this, I don't discriminate friends! That's not the point again!

The point is how bad things could go wrong? I believe people will look down on you if and only if you were to look down upon yourself. There may be a lot of things you have regret doing, but what has been done, has already been done. There's no point in reminding yourself of it, if you don't have the heart to repent your wrong doings. Cut things short, I have only one phrase to offer. Cherish what you have now, but be realistic.

Done with exams for this year!

Exams are over for about a week and one thing for sure, I did not do well for my exams.

I wouldn't say I didn't put in effort because I was studying till the wee mornings everyday with 4-5 hours of sleep on average. It just that the papers are so freaking difficult compare to previous semesters. Maybe I put my focus on the things. Disappointing paper one after another, still can't believe I can put up with all the disappointment and focus on other topics.

Anyway, exams are over! So now I can only hope and pray for better results.

In less than 36 hours, I should be on my way back to Singapore. Sooo excited! Finally I can sink my teeth to all the seafoods, junk food and all other tasty stuffs. So many meet ups need to be done. So many things I want to do. So many places I want to be at. I think my schedule is full till Monday for now. However, money will be another issue, think I'll just deplete my current savings first then find work to do. *sigh*

Got people said I've lost weigh, don't know how true is that. Wait till I see my mama, if she starts nagging then I think I really lose weigh.

One more thing, I'll be changing my blog address to http://nerdblogger.blogspot.com

2 days to home.
20 days to my birthday.

Weird Caller

This morning I received a call, well it wasn't really exactly in the morning but it woke me up from my sleep, so I will consider it as morning. Anyway, the call lasted no more than 3 sec. If you are wondering what so special about this 3 second call, read on k.

So here I was, having my beauty sleep, on my so so comfy bed and the hp goes off, RINGGGGGGG!! Darn! Who could it be calling me at, I think it's 12 in the afternoon? Couldn't really make out the numbers but manage to notice that the hands of my alarm clock is pointing upwards and rather close together.

So I stumbled across the room, tripping over whatever notes I have on the floor (can't help, exam period! That should explained why I am still sleeping at that hour!). First glance at my phone, it says "Private Number". Only two possible groups of caller to fall into that category, first will be calls from Singapore and the other will be from the house rental agency. First thing that comes to my mind is the calls from the latter because it is almost impossible that I receive calls from Singapore that early, so I am ready to scream my heads off at the caller.

With my super-sexy-haven't-wake-up voice, I managed to croak a Hello. Sounds of a bad reception, I croaked another hello. And 'Clicked' the call ended.

I'm not sure if I am still dreaming or what? I seriously thought I heard a sobbing voice and it sound like her (Go read my previous post dated 3rd June 05 to find out who she is..). From the distorted signal (Lost of signals usually is the problem for overseas calls in the first few seconds.), I thought I heard something like miss you. Well, it could be hate you or curse you but you couldn't have go through all the trouble to make an overseas call to send that message across right?

And of course I did not call back to confirm if she is the culprit or not. Anyway, this got me thinking, what if one day she would do that and ask for a patch back?

Well, I really don't know the answer. I'm pretty comfortable with my life now as a single, and waiting for the next "ferry" to hop on. Maybe letting nature takes its path?

But I still would like to know, WHO THE HELL CALLED ME??

BTW, today 7 Nov is exactly 1 year since she left.

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Since I am already blogging now, might as well continue. Paper on last Saturday is definitely a nightmare come true! The questions were so different from the past years papers. Simply put, my hope of having good grades for this subject is GONE!!

Darn the lecturer, the things that he ask us to concentrate on, are the things that came out in minority. Feel so cheated.

Sigh. Can only blame it on myself, I guess. And there goes my hope on honours. *pui!*

Enough said! Back to the books.

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Have to get this down before I totally forget. Shanice actually send me birthday greetings a month before hand, talk about kiasuism.

Well actually, she got the month wrong. I was wondering how come I'm receiving b'day song and wishes on sms and as well as an ecard from her. Don't think it's hilarious for you all, but it definitely brighten up my day after the disatrous paper. If not I reckon I probably still be sulking over it.



3 more days to end of exams.
11 more days to home.
29 more days to My Birthday!!

One thing I hate most is...

EXAMS!!!

Need all the luck I can have again, so people it's time to wish me luck and pray for me again. :)

5 Nov - Relational Database Systems
9 Nov - Advanced Database Systems
10 Nov - Introduction to Communications

And finally...

18 Nov - Home Sweet Home!!

3 more days to exams.
8 more days to end of exams.
14 more days to home. (Edit : Should be 16. I think I fail my maths)
34 more days to My Birthday!!

Now back to my studies..