Emotional Imbalanced everywhere.

First, my deepest condolences to Thomas and David. Their grandma passed away on 11 August 2005. The pain of losing love ones when you are in a foreign country is definitely greater than when you are near them.

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For the past weeks, I've been looking around to find something that interests me and for me to blog about. I saw this article in Tomorrow.sg about this girl -TristeFemme- who got pregnant and got ditched by her boyfriend shortly after he found out about the pregnancy.

She has removed her blog this morning, after sheer volume of traffic from Tomorrow.sg readers and probably from other blogs that linked her.

Here's some of it that's been cache by Google and Yahoo.

And I believed the main reason for her actions is probably the senseless comments on who should bear more responsibility. I would said F U all. She write her blog neither to gain sympathy nor asking opinion on who is right or wrong. I think she just need an avenue for her vent out her anger and frustration, to keep herself from going insane.

It nice to see there are a lot of people who send heartwarming wishes asking her to stay strong and brave, but to those people who leave comments such as, she is trying to seek attention, to gain sympathy, to take revenge against her SAF Merit Scholar boyfriend and stuff like that. Who the hell are you to judge them? Are you really that perfect that you have done nothing wrong before?

"For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you."

I suddenly remember a scene from "Passion of Christ", but not clearly enough to write down the whole scene. From my memory, Jesus, drew a line on the ground, and asked the people who were throwing stones at the lady for some sin that she has commit. (Cannot remember what is it. If you know, let me know, k?) Jesus then ask those peopl who are throwing stones at her, that are they sinless that they are able to judge her. (I might be wrong, correct me.) (btw, i'm not christain.)

Since this is already a one-sided story, what is there to judge? I've read some of the article, e.g. yuhui and some others which I don't have the link. (Do a search for "unwanted pregnancy" or "tristefemme" in www.technorati.com, and you find lots of things about it) I am not saying that yuhui is right or wrong, but I think even if TristeFemme is trying to take revenge it's none of our business. In contradiction, I'm poking my nose into yuhui blog. I'll apologise if I sound a little offending to anyone.

Some nice encouraging blog for her. http://loveris.blogspot.com If you remember, I've mention her before in my previous entries.

What provoke me into writing all these craps, I think I seriously kuan buei qi those guys who wants to fuck around and don't dare to take any responsibility. Hope that one day, you will tio STD and die alone. (What an evil curse!)

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Now for another closer to my heart issue. These few days I saw a lot of my friends taking the emotional rollercoaster. It's really heartwrenching for me to see them behaving this way.

To me the friends that I have make here, are really like family to me. These are the people whom I talk to, whom I lived with, whom I eat with, whom I will be willing to share my joy with

If keeping the problems or worries will make you feel better, then I will give u my support.

"For surely there is a hereafter, and your hope will not be cut off."

You know better than I do, if one day you decide to share, I will be the first one to volunteer.

If you are reading this, I'm sure you know who you are.. :)